FUNERAL

“So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.”
– John 16:22 ESV

Saying goodbye to your loved one is not easy. It is stressful, filled with grief, questions and—unfortunately—responsibilities. Often, you don’t know what to do. Let us help you honor your loved one with a celebration of life and eternal life for us all, while speaking words of faith, hope and love in Jesus Christ to your attendants.

Funeral FAQs

View more answers to your questions with our downloadable Memorial Services Guide

Where do I even begin?

These three phone calls are essential after contacting your loved one’s friends and family – a local funeral home, Asbury and your loved one’s Asbury Discipleship Community. Each will have their own speciality to help you with details of planning a funeral or supporting you in prayer. 

How soon should services be scheduled?

The service should be scheduled at least three days after death in order to provide time for proper planning and to allow out-of-town guests an opportunity to attend. If cremated, you can wait as long as necessary.

Service Days and Times

  • Monday – 1-3 pm
  • Tuesday – 10 am to 3 pm
  • Wednesday – 10 am to 3 pm
  • Thursday – 2-3 pm, during the school year
  • Friday – 10 am to 3 pm
  • Saturday – 10 am to 2 pm 

Price

Casket, urn, plot and other funeral expenses not included. Please contact your funeral home.

Asbury member: Provided - Facility, Coordinator, Sound Tech

  • Pastor – $150 service; $200 service/graveside, Voluntary Honorarium
  • Organist – $150
  • Pianist – $100-$150, Individual fees may vary
  • Soloist – $75-$100, Individual fees may vary
  • Video – $250, created from pictures
  • Song Leader – $50, if no soloist/pastor not comfortable leading congregational singing

Related to Asbury member:

  • Facility fee* – $250 Chapel; $500 Sanctuary
  • Pastor – $150 service; $200 service/graveside, Voluntary Honorarium
  • Organist – $150
  • Pianist – $100-$150, Individual fees may vary
  • Soloist – $75-$100, Individual fees may vary
  • Video – $250, created from pictures
  • Song Leader – $50, if no soloist/pastor not comfortable leading congregational singing
  • Sound Tech* – $100, Friday or Saturday
  • Coordinator* – $200 

Non-member with Asbury connection:

  • Facility fee* –
  • Pastor – $150 service; $200 service/graveside, Voluntary Honorarium
  • Organist – $150
  • Pianist – $100-$150, Individual fees may vary
  • Soloist – $75-$100, Individual fees may vary
  • Video – $250, created from pictures
  • Song Leader – $50, if no soloist/pastor not comfortable leading congregational singing
  • Sound Tech* – $100, Friday or Saturday
  • Coordinator* – $200

Contact the Bereavement Coordinator: Sheryl Martin

Email:
Main Office Phone: 918.492.1771
Sheryl’s Direct: 918.392.1144
Sheryl’s Cell: 918.381.5659

Asbury 

6767 S Mingo Rd, Tulsa, OK US 74133

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